As parents, it’s natural to want our children to succeed. We love seeing their hard work pay off, and it can be genuinely hard to watch them miss out on a placing or an award. Sometimes, we even feel they deserved it. But not winning is not just “ok” - it’s an essential part of growing up. Why missing out matters Children don’t build resilience when everything goes their way. They build it when things don’t. Experiencing disappointment helps children: Develop resilience and e

Choosing a school is one of the biggest decisions you'll make as a parent. Every school has its own culture, expectations and way of doing things, so taking the time to explore your options can make all the difference. While there is no such thing as the "perfect" school, there is often a school that is the right fit for your child and your family. As you visit schools and attend open days, here are some questions and observations that can help guide your decision. Do the sch

Every year I watch a new group of five-year-olds walk through the classroom door for the first time. Some skip in without a backwards glance. Others cling tightly to Mum or Dad. Some quietly take it all in before joining the class, while others are ready to explore every corner of the room. Although every child starts school differently, after many years of teaching Year 1 I've noticed something interesting. The children who settle most successfully aren't always the ones who